If you are daring, up for a challenge and super-flexible, see if you can get yourself into one of these hardcore positions. Bonus points if you remember to stretch first.
Bend your knees, sit between your heels, then lie alllll the way back (go ahead and use a pillow for your head/back if you can’t get all the way there). Your partner, who gets off easy in this one — in all that implies — mounts you on all fours. If your legs don’t go numb, you will get some well-aimed internal stimulation, and you’ll have hands free for A+ clit access.
The Reverse Wheelbarrow
Lie on your back – that’s it, that’s your only job. He stands at your feet, lifts your legs and hoists your hips up to his so that he can mount you like a caveman. Keep your chin tucked in to your chest so you don’t break something. He’ll be able to hold you up longer if he stands back against a wall and holds some of your weight against his body.
The Safety Piledriver
The Piledriver is a porn favourite but rarely appears IRL because it ends up with everyone in tears and neck braces for all. Try this modified version instead: Lie on a couch with your butt up on the top of the back cushions and your head hanging off the front of the front cushions. Your partner stands over you, feet on the seat cushion, bending his knees and holding on to the back of the couch (safety first!). Still hot, but no on-call medics required.
The Deep Lunge
Put your Warrior One skills to good use in a you-on-top position. Your partner lies flat on their back, you get on top with one leg straight down between theirs and the other bent so your foot is beside their chest. You’ll have way more leverage and staying power, plus you can grind as you please.
Have oral sex like the astronauts do (note: not actually verified.) You lie face down on a bed with your hips at the edge of the mattress. Your extra-strong partner stands by the side of the bed, lifts your legs over their shoulders, holds you up by the hips, and gets to work between your legs. Floaty and blissy for you, semi-strenuous for them. If the oral and hoisting combo is too much, have them kneel and replace the oral with a hard-working toy.
This post was originally published on Cosmopolitan.com.
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