In the days and weeks after a breakup, things often feel unresolved – you miss him, it hurts and you go over the details of how it ended over and over again. The desire to contact him can be overwhelming, but messages are tricky – it’s easy to go OTT, misinterpret a tone, or have him not respond at all. Ouch. Here, some messages you should never, ever send.
You’ve broken up and done the post-mortem. From this point onwards, any further dissection is the strict domain of your besties. Go on and on until the cows come home, but leave him out of it. He’s not in your life anymore, and your take on why it ended is none of his business.