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5 Signs You’re Just a Booty Call

Are you his late night back up plan?

Is he really into it, or are you his late night back up plan?

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1. It’s only ever on his terms. Sure, you see him a lot – but it’s basically when it suits him. He seems to be slotting your dates in-between his braais and poker nights. If you get the feeling you’re the dessert and not the main course, you’re probably right.

2. He doesn’t try to make you feel special. You’re not exactly after a diamond ring at this stage, but most guys do the little things to show they care – even if it’s something small like bringing you a takeaway latte from your favourite coffee shop. A guy who’s not in it for keeps isn’t going to put in the effort – it just won’t occur to him.

3. All your conversations have a decidedly dirty undertone. And all your dates end up in bed. Of course a guy who’s into you will flirt a lot too, but if you’re actually no more than FWB, you’ll probably find that there’s actually not that much to your chats once you get past the sexual innuendo.

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4. There’s no mention of future plans. If you tried to get him to discuss the possibility of a weekend away next month and he fobbed you off, it might be because he’s not thinking further than tonight.

5. You never have arguments. On the one hand, it could be that you guys are very, very compatible and never have disagreements. On the other, it could be because he can’t be bothered to get worked up about anything that matters to you.

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