Think something’s up with your man? If you see the following behaviours, stop wasting your time. He’s about to call it so jump in and camel it first.
1 He’s making weekend plans that no longer include you.
2 He’s started taking those little things he’s left at your place over time with him when he leaves: the book he’s been reading is no longer where it’s been for ages, next to your bed.
3 When you phone him, you can hear from the background noise that he’s out and about somewhere fun he didn’t invite you.
4 He’s started checking his phone every five minutes and when you’re together, and spends more time texting others than focusing on you.
5 If he’s stopped committing to any arrangements you try to make, he’s stopped seeing you in his future. It’s not unreasonable to expect a straight yes or a no to next week’s supper invite if you have to RSVP.