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4 'Sexy' Moves That Guys Secretly Hate

You’re turning him off and you don’t even know it.

In your head, you’re a sexy super vixen. You’ve got the moves and the attitude, and you’re like a mini red light district. In real life, he’s thinking ‘No. Just, no.’ Here, from the experts themselves (ie guys) is a list of misguided moves: the things that you think are turning him on, but are actually turning him right off.

1. Raking your nails down his back. Yes, you might feel all 50 Shades when you do this, but he’s feeling nothing but pain. And maybe a little embarrassment when the scratch marks are still visible, like a she-tiger having marked her prey, the next day.

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2. ‘Forgetting’ your underwear. If it’s just the two of you on a hot date, he may well appreciate your commando moves. If you’re out with his mates, and the venue is nowhere more exciting than the local steakhouse, he’s probably wishing you’d covered up.

3. You’re a harsher director than Stephen Spielberg. Telling him what you want in bed? Great. Issuing instructions non-stop, like a critical headmistress? Not so much. There’s a difference between saying ‘That’s great, maybe a little to the right’ and barking out: ‘Faster. Now slower. Now softer. Now change positions. Now go harder. Now change positions.’

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4. Sexting during the day. Don’t send him a picture of your boobs during a board meeting. But do send something suggestive over his lunch break to get him excited for later. Timing is everything.

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