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#COSMOTries: Having Sex With a Vibrator INSIDE You

Lots of us have used – and enjoyed – vibrators. (If you haven’t, you need to read this #COSMOTries: A Squeeze-Controlled Vibrator story now!) But less of us have used vibrators with our partner, and even fewer of us have had sex with them while a vibrator is inside of us. Which is why we had to test the We Vibe Sync Vibrating Couples Vibrator (R3 599, desir.co.za) – designed for just that! – when it landed at COSMO HQ. It’s a tough gig, but someone’s gotta do it…

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When I first unbox the We Vibe, it’s hard to imagine how my vagina will hold both one end of this vibrator and a penis. I mean, it’s a lot! Shaped like a ‘D’, you can use the two vibrating sides (on either end) for external clitoral stimulation (ideal whether you’re playing solo or with bae), and for internal stimulation (just slip inside).

What I love about this toy straight away is that the ‘D’ shape is malleable – you can bend it and shape it to fit you. But the challenge for me with this toy – the thing I’m still trying to wrap my head around – is how I’m going to fit this, and a penis, inside me. (Which according to the instruction manual is the best way to play with this gadget.)

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My man and I warm up with a little clit play – something the We Vibe is plenty of fun for. For starters, you can control this baby with a remote, which means my guy is having a ton of fun turning it on and off, and upping the vibrations, without me knowing he’s going to. We test the remote’s range: you can safely hold it behind your back or out of site, and it still connects to the toy. I think bae has found his new favourite way to tease me! (And I’ve found a road to Os that I love.)

Now that we’re both very much in the mood, my man gently slides the one tip of the We Vibe inside me. I adjust the shape of the ‘D’ to fit more comfortably, and then he switches on the vibrations. It’s a lot of fun. Like, a lot. Even better: if you orgasm primarily from either clitoral stimulation or internal stimulation, this toy sits so that you can cover both bases. The one tip, inside you, vibrates to hit your G-spot (and can massage his penis when he’s inside of you, too), while the other sits over your clit, offering blissful vibes externally. Win!

While I’m busy losing myself in the double-whammy of vibrations inside and out, my man lubes up (essential, ladies, thanks to trying to fit both a toy and him in your vag!) and gently, slowly slides himself in. I’ll be honest: there’s no sexy, hard thrusting while you’re trying to get this right. You have to be slow and gentle, and adjust both him and the toy to fit everything in you comfortably. And I’m glad we warmed up first: zero foreplay would have made this move pretty uncomfortable for me.

having sex with a vibrator inside you

Once he’s inside of me, I take charge of the remote and ramp up the vibrations. Now my man – not just me – can feel the teasing rhythm. Thrusting is slower and more gentle than normal – we’re both aware that my vagina feels pretty, well, full – but it’s definitely a good kinda full. Reaching orgasm is easy, especially since I’ve already peaked when we were on the clit play. But here’s the one potential downer: guys tend to O quickly at the best of times. Throw in the toy’s vibrations while he’s inside of you, and he’s likely to climax even more quickly. If you want to have sex with a vibrator inside you, make sure you get yours before penetration, because I doubt he’ll last long enough to get you there otherwise.

The other hilarious effect: once you’ve both come, you have to scramble to find the remote and switch the We Vibe off, fast. It took us a a good few seconds, both of us groaning as the vibrations continue to play over now super-sensitive parts, for us to switch the gadget off. Hilarious!

I love that this toy is geared towards both you and him, and that it adds a different dimension to sex. There are also so many different ways to play with the We Vibe that I don’t think I’d get bored of this gadget quickly – ideal, since it is a bit of an investment. You can even download the We Vibe app and connect the toy to your phone via Bluetooth, adding more levels of play including syncing the vibrations of the toy to your favourite music!

My verdict? A lot of fun, a brilliant orgasm aid and a toy you’ll use over and over again.

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We Vibe was recently involved in a lawsuit in the US about the data of its customers it was collecting. However, it’s worth noting:

  • The lawsuit is US-based, and the settlement applies only to those in the US.
  • The Settlement does not establish who is correct, but rather is a compromise to end the lawsuit and avoid the uncertainties and costs associated with litigation. We Vibe maintain that their data practices comply with applicable law and that there was no wrongdoing.
  • We’ve been assured that SA users should have no concerns using the We Vibe app with their Sync Vibrating Couples Vibrator.

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