1. Cancel One, Cancel them All?
Many people and radio stations (by no means all) have stopped playing R. Kelly. Logically, it should follow that if you stop listening to/playing/streaming one alleged abuser, you should apply the same rule to the rest. Cancel one, cancel them all is an argument for consistency. If you stop streaming R. Kelly, should you do the same for XXXtentacion, 6ix9ine, Dr Dre, Ozzy Osbourne, Michael Jackson, Chris Brown etc. Of course, what you listen to is a personal choice. And with the sprawling list of accused abusers getting longer every day, how do we keep track and navigate this? Should we curate our music accordingly? Is your moral compass stronger than your love for Fiesta? This is something to consider. This brings me to my next point – Spotify had this very problem with inconsistency.
2. There Was a Spike in R. Kelly’s Music Streams Following the Documentary
Spotify streams of R. Kelly’s music increased immediately after the Surviving R. Kelly documentary launched. The daily streams in the US more than doubled following the airing of the show. This comes after a Spotify controversy last year when Spotify briefly implemented a policy against allegedly abusive artists. In May last year, Spotify removed all R. Kelly and XXXtentacion music from its playlists.
This ‘hateful content’ policy was cancelled three weeks after it was announced. Spotify was quick to backtrack when they were criticised for regulating some artists and not others. Spotify was scrutinised for selective punishment and not applying the same policy to other artists accused of abuse and sexual misconduct such as Dr. Dre, Michael Jackson, Gene Simmons and Chris Brown.
3. It’s Still a Bop. Now What?
When you hear R. Kelly, even if you’re enjoying the track for a few seconds in spite of yourself, it might be a good opportunity to remind yourself of the facts, think about them for a second, or even allow it to spark to a discussion about predators. Here’s something: Imagine him crafting these lyrics to his disturbing relationship with a fifteen-year-old girl, because that’s likely how the song came into being.
R. Kelly has, very publicly, been accused of having sex with minors. He married 15-year-old Aaliyah when he was 27. Although R. Kelly has settled lawsuits spanning two decades (including a child pornography charge regarding him having sex with and urinating on a thirteen-year-old girl), he has never been convicted of a crime. There’ve been recent allegations of a sex cult whereby R. Kelly controlled the movements and eating habits of the women and girls who lived with him. According to the documentary, a former employee of R. Kelly alleged that the musician used recorded sex tapes as a form of insurance to stop women from speaking.
4. Let the Collaborative Artists’ Apologies Remind You That We’re All Learning
Since the launch of the six-part docuseries, Surviving R. Kelly on 3 January, artists (including Lady Gaga and Chance the Rapper) have apologised for working with R. Kelly and his estranged daughter has called him a ‘monster’. Celine Dion has also pulled “I’m Your Angel” from streaming services. The issue of abusers in our music, our communities, our families, our workplaces – remains triggering, messy and hurtful. It’s important to continue grappling with how to speak out against it, how to have conversations around it, and how to improve.
5. Survivors Are Still Coming Forward
R. Kelly is under investigation in Georgia – the investigation was opened because of the interviews that surfaced in the Surviving R. Kelly documentary. The Fulton County District Attorney’s Office has reached out to women who shared their stories on the show (from sexual harassment to sexual abuse). Attorney Kim Foxx has urged survivors to come forward in order to build a criminal case against R. Kelly, she quoted as saying, ‘We cannot seek justice without you’.Since then, more survivors have come forward. The recent allegations include one woman accusing R. Kelly of inappropriate conduct at her grandmother’s home in Chicago’s in the 80s and another accusing him of misconduct in his Chicago warehouse studio in 2002.
6. There Are R. Kellys Everywhere
As Zukiswa Wanner writes, many of us have had R. Kellys in our lives, in the form of uncles, teachers, family friends and others. Sexual predators and pedophiles often go years, lifetimes even, without being held accountable, without being stopped, without being exposed. Listen to survivors. Believe survivors.
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