The Sex He Secretly Craves

Every once in a while, your man wants you to spring this risqu move. Why not fulfill his ultimate fantasy?

You know guys dream about threesomes and doing it in odd places. But your man has another wish, a secret one that he’s dying for you to make come true: to be dominated in bed. Yep, experts insist that most men crave this kind of sex every once in a while. “Guys feel pressure to please their women and maintain their erection,” says sex therapist Sandor Gardos, founder of “But when a woman takes over, he can give up the reigns and enjoy.” FYI, we don’t mean anything that involves scary equipment – just taking control and treating you both to a thrill. This will show you how to conquer him in the sack. If he can handle it, do it from start to finish or just pick a tip or two.


In his fantasy world, he wants you to attack him out of nowhere. But if you literally attack him out of nowhere, he’ll scream and cover his man bits with both hands. Call your man up and tell him you’re going to take him whenever and where ever you please. The notion alone will get him going, but if you sense any hesitancy, stick to basic girl on top.


Now you can put the plan in motion by pouncing when he least expects it. If you grab him and give him deep kisses and even oral sex as soon as he walks through the door, he’ll feel like you’re passion prey. Plus, it shows that you’re adventurous and enthusiastic about sex with him.

Playfully order him to get on the bed and stay still while you do what you want with his body. Or lie back and feed erotic instructions to him, telling him where you want to be touched and how. He loves feeling like he’s there solely for your pleasure, and when you dictate what he has to do, it alleviates any pressure to figure out what gets you off.


Once he knows you mean business, you can bring light bondage into the mix – handcuffs not required. Simply pin his wrists above his head with your hands. He’ll love it.