We fun, fearless females can be an ambitious bunch in everything we do – and when it comes to sex, why settle for great when you can go for mind-blowing?
We took the advice of guys who’ve had memorable sex and those who study such things to give you these six ways in which to earn unforgettable status.
1 Build anticipation
‘Before leaving for work, my girl will come up behind me while I’m brushing my teeth and play with my package. Then she kisses me goodbye and flies out the door. For the next eight hours, all I can think about is how we’re going to continue the action that night.’
Few guys have self-control to create this kind of erotic anticipation on their own – when they get excited, many want to get busy then and there. That’s why so many men love it when women tease them. And then there’s the payoff when he finally does boil over: a super-intense orgasm!
Sex can be soulful and intense but not every moment has to be the sexual equivalent of a John Mayer song.
‘Sometimes funny things happen – like one of you emits a noise or tumbles off the bed. If I’m with a girl who can’t let these bloopers roll off her back, it’s lame.’
Men love being playful, so getting goofy between the sheets will leave him feeling at ease with you.
3 Be enthusiastic
When was the last time you jumped your guy? Guys are thrilled when a woman initiates sex because it shows how excited you are to be with him, and enthusiasm is a huge ego booster. If he usually initiates sex, try throwing him onto the bed and having your way with him for a change, or whispering before work that you need some satisfaction ASAP.
‘I have an ex who always used to say she found sex at the beginning of a relationship the best. So even after we’d dated for a while, she used to behave as though we’d just started dating – playing footsie under the table or coming up behind me in a club and grabbing my butt.’
4 Be body-confident.
A confident woman who acts as though she’s sexy is sexy to men.
‘I’ll never forget one girlfriend who loved having sex in the middle of the day with the light streaming through the window. I got to view so much of her body, which was the hottest sight.’
The typical man isn’t detail-orientated enough to notice your so-called flaws unless you draw attention to them.
5 Tell him what you want
For the average guy, one of the main goals is to get a hot response from you. That’s why so many men wish more women would let them know exactly which touches and moves they want.
‘When women are quiet about what gets them aroused, guys are forced to guess, leading to a ton of anxiety.’
6 Have a signature move
‘While she’s thrusting against me, she’ll suddenly cross her left ankle over her right and resume the action. The way I fit into her is so different and erotic, I can only last for a few seconds. I’ve never been with a girl who did anything like it.’
Just as a signature fashion style will make you stand out from the crowd, a signature sex move will propel you to the forefront of a man’s booty memory bank. No need to invent an entirely new position; just personalise a specific trick so it becomes yours.