
That time when you’re in a long-distance relationship and your sex life is slowly dying
Sex toys aren’t just for alone time. There’s no reason to miss out on all the pleasure when your guy is away on business. Take your sexting to the next level with the We Vibe 4 Plus, a couple’s toy that allows your partner to create vibrations through an app on his phone. You still have control – you can always switch off if the timing is awkward – but this toy gives you the opportunity to play together even when far apart. Love.

That time when the position is awkward and you can’t reach your clit
Sex with no clitoral stimulation? That’s a sacrifice you don’t have to make. Use the Tiani Couples Vibrator from Lelo to stimulate your clit during sex – the clever design of this toy means that your partner will feel the vibrations at the same time, leading to insanely awesome orgasms for both of you. Win/win.

That time when the bedroom just isn’t exciting enough
Are things feeling a little meh at the moment? Taking your sex life outside of the 8pm bedtime slot can make a major difference. The clue’s in the name with this one – Fifty Shades of Grey Relentless Vibrations takes its kinky cues from your secret fave book, allowing you to experience powerful internal vibration no matter where you are. Your partner can control the vibrations from up to 10m away, and the toy features four vibration patterns to help you find the perfect rhythm.

That time when you just can’t seem to get there
Sometimes it takes a little more effort to find your sweet spot. We get it, it’s totally normal. In those frustrating moments, your best bet is a toy that stimulates you in tons of different ways. The Picobong Mahana Vibrator vibrates all over with 12 different settings, so you can experiment until you get exactly what you need. It’s also super-quiet and discreet – a great choice for first-time sex-toy shoppers.

That time when your guy is, well, under-performing
Your man is not a superhero; he will have his off days. Luckily, there’s a toy that can give you a helping hand when he seems to be flagging. The Fifty Shades of Grey Vibrating Love Ring gives him extra pleasure, keeps him harder for longer and adds plenty of vibration to bring an extra level of fun to the experience for both of you. This toy is a legit fix for so many problems that couples come across – we LOVE it.
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