Multiple orgasms. Sounds like a dream, doesn’t it? In fact, who hasn’t gotten into an argument with a man about how #blessed he is to be able to pee standing up (among literally pretty much everything else), only to have them say, ‘But women can have multiples!’
In an AskReddit thread, five women opened up about how they taught themselves to have multiple orgasms, but be warned. They aren’t necessarily the holy grail they masquerade as.
Here’s how five women mastered the art of multiple orgasms
1 I had a lover who pushed right through the oversensitive time and the orgasms sort of cascaded.
‘No rest between. The other thing I would like to note is that learning to cum from g-spot stimulation also helped, as those get more and more intense as they progress. While each direct clitoral orgasm seems to decrease in intensity when they are multiple.
If you’re close when you are doing PIV, look up how to do g-spot fingering. At first it just felt nervy to me, and not quite pleasurable, but this feeling developed over time and is now the most reliable method for partnered orgasms for me.’
2 I was around 40 when this changed
‘The main benefit to getting the G-spot orgasms, to me, is that they are pretty reliably multiple and do get more intense after the first. I was sort of “trained” by a lover using outside and inside stimulation at the same time. The first time I came from just inside stimulation I was pretty stunned, it was like a party trick for a while.
I would still say that more intense is the clitoral, even if not multi, if there is a lot of buildup and teasing and edging. But best overall experience is getting the G-spot ones, because they don’t seem to run out; and in particular from fingering rather than PIV.
But the most physically intense orgasms, hands down, are the direct clitoral multiples forced with vibrator – forced, as in he did have to hold me down to do it, but they sort of stacked up, like the g-spot ones do, and it was cum, edge, edge, cum, edge, cum, over and over. Too much for everyday! But exceptional as an experience, mind-blowing.
Once my body figured out it could do that, it became easier to cum multiple times in a night from different sorts of stimulation, which is nice. And I’m not unusually sensitive, either. I can take pretty direct stimulation, and like some rough play. I’ve just become very responsive, and able to let go and really feel everything. I think this is an “older lady” thing.’
3 I learned how to do it on my own first
‘I just kept holding a vibrator on my clit until I came again. I tend to squirt on my second orgasm so I was holding back for a long time because I was afraid it was pee. When I finally relaxed and let it happen, the floodgates open (pun intended) and now I can have several.
I get to the point where I can’t tell where one ends and the next starts. It’s just wave after wave. I usually wind up calling mercy because I’m so exhausted.’
4 I can orgasm a few times but the best is always the first one
‘And the rest are just a disappointment for how much effort goes into making it happen. I often get too sensitive after the first to keep going if I use too much direct stimulation with too much pressure. If I’m more “careful” with the first (softer touching, slower), then the next are easier to achieve and are less disappointing, though still are a lot of work. Like I can bring myself to orgasm the first time in a few minutes and then any after that can take 10 to 20 minutes. Maybe something to consider experimenting with. Personally I prefer to edge and take my time to make the first really intense and leave it at that.’
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