Relax: we’re not about to tell you to try an acrobatic trick that’s going to take a few yoga classes before you can master it. In fact, you’d be surprised at how easy these sex ideas are. These aren’t hard and fast rules – of course you need to be enjoying what’s going down in the bedroom, too. But if you’re game, why not spice things up with one (or all!) of these eight ideas?
1 Lights on
Guys are visual – you know this. Heck, we’re visual, too! Let him feast on the sight of your naked body… and then enjoy his. It also means more eye contact which is, well, HOT.
2 More direction
He’s not looking for you to sound like Neill Blomkamp directing his latest movie – but he loves knowing he’s doing a good job. Besides, giving more direction means you’re more likely to hit the big O, too.
3 A little 50 Shades
If he’s always taking the lead, switch things up and show a bit of dominance yourself – not only because of the element of surprise, but also because it can show another side to you. Not to mention amp up your confidence!
4 More oral
For you, for him – either way, you’ll both love it. One way to bring this in: tonight, don’t aim for penetrative sex – enjoy both of your orgasming without your mouths alone. (It’ll also make penetrative sex more exciting when you do go for this.)
5 Extra foreplay
This might surprise you, but he’s often as into it as you are – and with all that build-up to a very sexy finale, who can blame him? Added bonus: if you struggle to climax via penetrative sex, upping your foreplay game will help you build in Os as part of the teasing and fun.
6 Concentrating on you
Most guys love watching you touch yourself in bed – it’s sexy stuff! Why? Well, firstly because you’re sexy. But also because pleasure is contagious… he sees you reaching your bliss, it turns him on to reach his, too. And we love that this has the added bonus of subtly coaching him on how to get you there, in case he still hasn’t aced that part yet.
7 Loads of touching
And not just in the obvious places. Try these five spots to turn him on, then reverse it and let him get touchy-feely with you.
8 An open mind
If he’s keen to try something new and you’re not that keen on the idea, mull it over before you give him an outright no. You might find your new favourite! And join in on the effort by putting some thought into things you’ve always wanted to do. Break the ice by suggesting yours first, then reciprocate with his ideas. Hello, new sex adventure!