You have to go to work early tomorrow morning, you’re beating yourself up for putting those shoes on your credit card, and you missed gym today because your boss scheduled a meeting at lunch. Basically, you feel about as sexy as the sponge you’re using to wipe down the kitchen counter. If life has chased your sex drive away, these tips can help:
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Just do it, says sex therapist Bettina Arndt, author of The Sex Diaries (Melbourne University Press), who subscribes to the theory that sexual desire is a decision. ‘The female libido tends to be a very fragile, distractible creature, and so it’s very easy to come up with a long list of reasons why you don’t feel like having sex,’ she says. ‘Knowing all these things won’t help you – in the end you’ll have a miserable relationship if you’re constantly rejecting your partner.’ |
