So you’re in the steamy throws of passion, but you’ve got as much chance of reaching O-town as stealing Robert Pattinson from Kristen Stewart. To stop you from sweating the small stuff (and help you focus on having fun) we address a few of the more cringeworthy issues you’ve asked us about…
The Reality: There’s no reason to question your sexual orientation if you have a naughty dream about a girl. ‘Female sexuality is less rigid than male sexuality, so it is quite common for women to be turned on by other women,’ Bakos says. Instead of trying to forget it, use it to spice up your relationship.
Tell your boyfriend you had a really bizarre dream that you found very hot, then watch his pants stand at attention while you describe it to him in all its juicy detail. Not comfortable sharing? Use it to fuel a fantasy when you’re with your partner, or even during masturbation.