The X-Rated Sex Position to Show Your Partner You're an X-pert

This position is all about taking charge

Sex position instructions

This x-rated sex position is all about control — so take it from the get-go and have your partner lie face up on the bed. Turn around and straddle him — so your back is toward him — and then lower yourself onto his penis. Extend your legs back toward his shoulders, relaxing your torso onto the bed between his feet. With both your legs and your dude’s forming an X-shape, start to slide up and down. Use his feet for added thrusting leverage if you need it!

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It may take some manoeuvring to get into place, but once you’re there, X *definitely* marks the spot.

You’ll love it because

This position gives you total control, so experiment with different types of stimulation to see what pleases you both most. Your partner will also love getting an A+ view of taking charge of your own orgasm. It doesn’t hurt to add some X-Rated noises, letting him know just how good he feels.

Is one position not enough for you? Then you need to try the ’68’ sex position. 

This article originally appeared on Cosmopolitan.com.

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