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10 Foreplay Tips to Try NOW

There are many ways to get your man ready for the main event. In an effort to keep your foreplay inspired, we spoke to 10 guys to find out what gets them going.

1 ‘MASSAGES, MASSAGES, MASSAGES! Enough said. Everyone likes some TLC after a long day, and more often than not it has lead to happy times. Men like to be romanced, too.’ – Shaun, 26

2 ‘Neck and ear kisses/sucking. There’s just something hot about hearing and feeling your girl’s breath up close.’ – Jason, 25

3 ‘A kissing session. In movies, they always make it seem like guys want to dive right into sex. Personally, I love kissing and it makes me feel really connected to my partner.’ – Prince, 28

4 ‘I love some nipple action. But it’s a tricky one because I know some guys hate it. Get a little busy in the area and see how he responds. If he becomes stiff as a board and really silent, it might not be his thing. If he likes it, you’ll be able to tell.’ – Nathan, 29

5 ‘Show my balls some love, please. If this means you just cup them and tug them gently when we start making out, or even cradle them a little when you’re giving me a hand-job, I love it. Also, if you lick them, I’ll be amazed at the sensation every time.’ – Thabani, 25

6 ‘I had an ex who would sometimes, like, bite the side of my ass gently when she was going down on me. It drove me mad. I don’t miss our fights, but I miss those precious ass bites.’ – Eddie, 24

7 ‘Please befriend my prostate. The first time a woman asked to put her finger up my ass I was quite nervous. But through the help of some lube and patience, it ended up blowing my mind. Just make sure to chat about it first to gauge his reaction. Lingerie surprises are good. An unsolicited finger up the ass? Not so much.’ – J, 28

8 ‘I know this isn’t supposed to be about blow-jobs, but when a girl grabs my ass while she’s going down on me, it’s the best. It makes me feel like she’s really into it and is thrilled that my penis is, you know, in her mouth.’ – Mo, 26

9 ‘I love it when my girlfriend strokes my crotch under the dinner table. The feeling of her hand through my jeans and how sneaky the whole thing feels really gets me going.’ – Paul, 26

10 ‘Sometimes my girlfriend will rub her boobs all over me while we’re fooling around. When she’s about to go down on me, she’ll graze her nipples over my junk. It’s unreal.’ – T, 25

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