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7/30/2010 12:22:59 PM
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blompot
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Hi Ladies
i've noticed that the guys i've been dating who has kids already, are like  ermmmm, **** when it comes to their baby momma's, always saying, yes, yes, how can i please you.  am i the only one that has been experiencing this or are all men like this.
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7/30/2010 12:59:11 PM
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Plod
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Hi Blompot
no they not all like this, u just have bad luck for now running into ppl like that. hang in there love.
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7/30/2010 1:28:15 PM
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amarula
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with a few guys who had kids that i dated , i've never really interacted with the babymom or even seen her. i only met the kids.
i think its not good to involve urslf or worry urslf about his relationship with the mother of his kid/s, and try as much as possible not to involve her or mention her in ur relationship with ur man.
as long as ur man makes you happy & is always available when u need his attention, then dont worry about what happens btwn him & the BM. SHE'S AN EX FOR A REASON.
edited by amarula on 7/30/2010
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7/30/2010 2:10:31 PM
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blompot
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thnx ladies, @ Amarula, i've never seen her, or interacted wit her, she fones there @ random hours, & if we in the same room, i cant help but here, how he talks to her. in such a submissive tone.
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7/30/2010 5:15:20 PM
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amarula
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maybe he talks to her that way just to avoid arguements & doesnt want to be rude infront of you.
tell him that you dont like it when she calls at awkward hours.
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8/8/2010 9:48:54 AM
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Strongie
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Hey there, i think he is being so submissive to avoid drama. We dont know what she is capable of if she gets mad. She could stop him from seeing his kids, or worse, apply for child maintenance, etc. On the other side, you should tell him to draw sum limits, because there is a dangerously strong connection between a guy and his bb mama, and they will always be in each other's life. The good news is, she is an EX!
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8/10/2010 4:32:50 PM
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the mistress
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@ Strongie, babes as much as lm ridin on the same wave with what you're sayin lm a taken aback when u say ''or worse, apply for child maintenance'' its his responsibility and he has to take care of his children. I dnt knw y one has to even apply for maintenance as if to remind some one abt his kids when he shld just do it. Really now!! Anyway not to divert from the issue @ hand, Blompot talk to yo man and let him knw what u comfortable with and what u not. Who knows maybe he's on the wrong here and he jus doesnt give this chick an ear and naye she's pushin fo her kids survival. I dnt knw but maybe??? He's with u now and as much as he has children wherever its no reason to inflict pain and displeasure on u, purposely or otherwise. Yo man shld also explain to her ex that he's wth u nw and u deserve some respect bandla.
edited by the mistress on 8/10/2010
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8/11/2010 2:05:00 PM
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blompot
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@ Strongie, mayb it is 2 avoid drama, thnx, ill talk to him bout limits, lik wot tim is acceptable for her 2 call, if not an emergency etc. thnx mistress too 
fyi... he does pay more then his share of the childs expenses & thr r laws that protect a father so the mom cnt jst keep the child away from him.
its jst the tome that he uses that grinds me.
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8/16/2010 3:48:39 PM
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238pl6
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i just blv he is submissive just to avoid an argument..u knw how women can be, especially scorned baby mamas, they always try to cause arguments btwn the man and his new woman..so i jst think he is being submissive to protect u and his children! big ups and good lick babes..
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