What He's Feeling

Knowing how your guy feels – physically and emotionally – during the four stages of arousal is a great way to learn how to drive him wild. So we went and found out all you need to know.

STAGE 1: The Tease	His Brain ‘In the moments just before ejaculation, your man’s brain shuts down,’ says Kerner. ‘He’s completely overcome by the physical sensations.’ And afterwards, he feels relief. ‘The sexual chemical prolactin is released into his system to relieve his body from the demands of ejaculation and to take his mind off sex,’ explains Kerner. So if you’re dating one of those guys who immediately want to jump out of bed and wash the car, now you know why. Of course, most men crash after sex. ‘The endorphins that make them feel euphoric during sex actually send them to sleep afterwards,’ says Kerner. His Body Seconds before your guy reaches his peak, you can actually feel his body stiffen – as though he’s using all his energy for those final thrusts. He feels his testicles tighten and the pressure creep up his penis shaft before he reaches orgasm. ‘There are normally four to five rhythmic contractions that occur at 0,8-second intervals, the first ones being the most intense before orgasm,’ says Kerner. Work It To The Max Enhance his orgasm. Pull him deep inside you as he ejaculates to create an intense, powerfully connected sensation. ‘Stimulating him throughout the orgasm is important,’ explains Kerner. But immediately following climax, blood rushes away from your man’s penis, leaving him unable to endure anything more than feather-light strokes. ‘While his sensitivity slowly subsides, trace your fingertips over the upper half of his body. These movements soothe his skin and reinforce your bond.’
STAGE 2: The Build-Up
STAGE 3: The Stamina Stretch
STAGE 4: The Climax

Author: Dan Kraus