Some men are only too happy to dive down, giving us the oral sex we love and deserve. Others are less keen and may need some encouragement to head south. And those who never venture past our breasts? Don’t waste your time.
But how do you make sure you get your fair share of oral pleasure? First, answer these questions: are you comfortable with the idea? Exposing your genitals to close scrutiny makes some feel vulnerable, and men pick up on this anxiety and stay away. If you’re shy wear silk knickers; being licked through wet silk feels great. When his tongue hits your flesh, your nerves will evaporate.
What else makes him hesitate over going down on you? When my friend Katie asked her man why he never performed oral sex, he admitted he didn’t like pubic hair. So she called his bluff by having a Brazilian and he happily lapped away for hours.
At certain times of the month, your natural scent is stronger (you’ll smell sweetest just before and while you ovulate).
It’s also worth letting him know exactly why his tongue is as important to you as his penis. It can be used with expert precision; he doesn’t need to worry about premature ejaculation and, most importantly, women are far more likely to orgasm from cunnilingus, where we receive direct clitoral stimulation, than from penetration. If our post-coital purrs aren’t sufficient reward, then our devotion – for a spectacularly good lick – should be. Let him swell with pride at a job well done.
GREAT TONGUE TRICKS FOR HIM TO TRY...
| 1. Hot Licks |
Get him to pucker his lips around the clitoral glans (the external part of your clitoris, covered by the hood) and apply a bit of gentle suction. Then, as he’s softly sucking, he should apply the firm tip of his tongue on and off your clitoris in a steady rhythm. |
| 2. iF Only… |
| 3. Sound Effects |
| 4. Helping Hand |
| 5. On The Money |