You wouldn't want to be a guy - it would mean talking to your friends in monosyllables, having feet that smell like French onion soup, and looking at women with big boobs. But just because we'd balk at trading places with guys doesn't mean they have nothing to teach us. For starters: 'Men tend to act on their instincts more, especially when it comes to sex,' says Dr Ian Kerner, author of Passionista: The Empowered Woman's Guide to Pleasuring a Man
(William Morrow). 'They do what feels good without over-thinking it.' Adopting that kind of male mentality in the bedroom leads to a long list of perks, including a higher libido and climaxing more often. In the name of sexual superiority, er, we mean equality, we asked experts to fill us in on exactly what a girl should steal from a guy's MO.