We at COSMO firmly believe that you can never have too much of a good thing – especially in the bedroom. That's why we're letting you in on some blissful news: With a little bit of know -how, you can experience more than one climax in a single session. In fact, from now on, you should have a new between-the-sheets mantra: No more one and done!
'The average woman is built to come again and again,' says Rachel Carlton Abrams, MD, coauthor of
The Multi-Orgasmic Woman (HarperOne). Meaning that once you've mastered that first peak, the climb to the next one is absolutely obtainable. 'Women don't require a refractory period like men do, so we're able to stay aroused for longer and orgasm a second and third time with little effort,' says Dr. Abrams.
Of course, sometimes just having a single full-body earthquake offers one hundred percent satisfaction, and some of you might feel like calling it a night after your usual one-timer. That's fine. After all, having the option is the key. However, for those times when you can't get enough, simply take these moregasm tips to heart (and to bed), and discover how to double your fun.
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Take a Mini Time-Out
Once you come for the first time, you're probably in the habit of pulling away from him because you're so sensitive to his touch. And rightly so: 'After an orgasm, a lot of nerve pathways have been stimulated, and there's been a tremendous surge in blood flow,' says Whipple. 'So it's completely natural for some women to want to take a break from stimulation in those moments immediately following.'
But here's the difference between a session that finishes here with a happy ending and one that continues on to multiple peaks: If you fall into a stupefied pleasure coma, you're done. If you resume touching an area that is not hypersensitive, you bring it on. To do it, 'give the vaginal area a break for a minute, and have your partner suck your fingers, kiss you, or caress your breasts,' says Dr. Abrams. 'The stroking in other regions will keep your nerves and sensual energy on high alert while your nether regions cool off just enough to take his caresses all over again.
Remember, you don't want to completely stop the intimate contact. Otherwise, you'll have to work that much harder to get to a heightened state of arousal. So keep up the caressing until you feel that hyper-sensitivity draining away and the heat returning. |
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