We at COSMO firmly believe that you can never have too much of a good thing – especially in the bedroom. That's why we're letting you in on some blissful news: With a little bit of know -how, you can experience more than one climax in a single session. In fact, from now on, you should have a new between-the-sheets mantra: No more one and done!
'The average woman is built to come again and again,' says Rachel Carlton Abrams, MD, coauthor of
The Multi-Orgasmic Woman (HarperOne). Meaning that once you've mastered that first peak, the climb to the next one is absolutely obtainable. 'Women don't require a refractory period like men do, so we're able to stay aroused for longer and orgasm a second and third time with little effort,' says Dr. Abrams.
Of course, sometimes just having a single full-body earthquake offers one hundred percent satisfaction, and some of you might feel like calling it a night after your usual one-timer. That's fine. After all, having the option is the key. However, for those times when you can't get enough, simply take these moregasm tips to heart (and to bed), and discover how to double your fun.
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Max Out Foreplay
Now that you're naked (and in the right mind-set), take the heavy lifting out of your first peak. To do that, point your man south. 'For most women, clitoral stimulation from oral sex is the easiest way for them to climax,' says Dr. Abrams. 'And having your guy help you get there before intercourse means that your body will be geared up to come again and respond to the added vaginal stimulation during sex, rather than still struggling to orgasm for the first time.'
And even if you don't come during foreplay, don't fast-track the fun stuff: Your guy pampering you down there still paves the way for multiples. 'If you're aroused slowly, then you'll stay aroused for longer, and unlike manual stimulation, his tongue is flexible, soft, and strong – the perfect tool for making that happen,' says Dr. Abrams.
Ask him to caress you down there with his tongue for a minute or so before pulling away for a few seconds. Then, have him dive right back in. 'Oral teasing techniques prime the body to expect that after each peak of sensation, another one is coming,' says Dr. Abrams. 'And it remembers that lesson when you orgasm – after one, it'll stay in that prepped state for more stimulation, putting you on the track to come again.' |
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