Make Sex More Erotic

Amp up the electricity in the bedroom by pushing the boundaries. Sex therapist Dr Ian Kerner explains.

All couples - even those with amazing sexual chemistry and compatibility - experience a dip in their excitement at some point. But there's a way to resuscitate that bedroom rush. Experiments exploring the relationship between danger and sexual allure prove that, when it comes to sexual attraction, a little danger really revs things up. Fortunately, you don't have to risk life and a limb to amp up your arousal potential - you just have to create your own 'danger scenario'. How? Follow these titillating tricks.

Get Him To Think Dirty	You tend to associate the exhilaration you feel when you're in danger with the person you're with. So, start getting your guy pumped up by doing something unexpected before you even get to the bedroom. For instance, when the two of you are at the shops, toss a pack of condoms into the shopping basket to let him know you have sex on your mind. Or, if you're shopping for clothes, pull him into the dressing room and say something outrageous, like 'I'd like to have sex with you right here.' The point is to do or say something seductive and surprising; you don't even have to follow through.
Be Creative
Treat Him To Some Sexy Sights
Catch Him Off Guard
Tempt and Tease Him
Be a Voyeur
Switch Up The Venues

Author: Dr Ian Kerner