Feel More Aroused

One of the best endings to the day is a session in bed. But even if you’re craving nooky, it can be hard to transition from work mode to sex mode. ‘Men have a biological ability to zero in on a task and block out all else, whereas women often find it difficult to disengage from job responsibilities and get aroused,’ says Lou Paget, author of The Great Lover Playbook (Gotham Books).

That’s why your guy may be ready for action way before you’ve reached a boiling point. Try these moves (one or all!) to reach a sexy frame of mind by the time you get together with him.

Step 1: Build Up Some X-rated Anticipation	Stepping into a cascade of water has a slew of passion payoffs: The heat calms you and soothes your muscles, and feeling clean can boost your sexual confidence because you won’t worry you smell less than fresh. ‘Showering is also a mental cue that signifies you’re washing away stress,’ says Britton. Massage in shower gel using a loofah to stimulate your skin. And angle your body so the stream of water lands on your below-the-belt bits, allowing you to enjoy the erotic sensation. After towelling off, rub on a lotion scented with vanilla (which many people find sensual) or jasmine (which is thought to trigger the release of endorphins).
Step 2: Sexify Your Commute
Step 3: Just Relax
Step 4: Take a Steamy Shower

Author: Molly Triffin