Lusty Lap Dance

This hot, 'ride him' position hits all your pleasure spots at once.

This one's always a firm favourite - he sits and you straddle him so you're face-to-face. 'You have a lot of control over the speed, angle and motion because you can use your arms and legs to help you manoeuvre,' says Dr Laura Berman, director of the Berman Centre and author of The Passion Prescription (Hyperion). 'Rather than just moving up and down, which can be especially thrilling for you, sway backwards and forwards, rubbing your clitoral area against him.'

In addition to the freedom of movement, there are a few other benefits to this booty move. 'If you lean back just a little bit, you'll get greater G-spot stimulation and he'll be able to play with your clitoris,' sex therapist, Dr Gloria Brame explains. Plus, your breasts will be perfectly aligned with his mouth, adding a whole other layer to the sexual experience.

Author: Jennifer Benjamin