Ask the host or hostess whether you can bring a friend. Unless it’s a catered affair, most people won’t mind. But if it
is don’t even ask – you’re on your own. Don’t panic, though. COSMO is at your side. Read on.
Be half an hour late.
No more. Half an hour allows enough time for the room to fill up and warm up, and for the party to get going. Later than that is impolite.
Before you enter the fray, stand back and check out the room. See any friendly, familiar faces? If so, save them for later. Everyone needs a social security blanket for awkward moments – and they will be yours.
Put your shoulders back and smile. You might believe you look like a spare part – to someone else you might look frosty and unapproachable.
Looking for someone to chat to? Avoid breaking up a conversation between two people, as they may not welcome the intrusion. However, most people in bigger groups are just making small talk. A group of three is often your best bet – a ‘spare wheel’ could be grateful for someone new to talk to.