While dating a co-worker is one of life's no-no's, the reality is that, in the average 8-5 job, you spend more time with your colleagues than anybody else. And, given your close proximity, similar career path and mutual disdain for your boss - not to mention shared Nandos lunches and debauched Christmas parties - developing romantic feelings for a male colleague is almost an inevitability.
SnagAJob.com, an American employment agency, conducted an informal poll with 800 respondents and discovered that 72% of men and 60% of women are secretly infatuated with a co-worker, while a 2007 Office Romance Survey from vault.com indicated that 17% of the people interviewed have actually been caught doing the deed at work... in the kitchen, on the stairwell and, yes, on their boss's desk (all together now, ewwwww!) If you find yourself wandering down the passage towards Kevin in accounts a little more often than necessary – or, have already gotten down-and-dirty after- hours in the boardroom – here's how to date a workmate without wrecking your career.
| Know Your Company's Policy On Office Romance |
Some companies are broad-minded and elect to turn a blind eye – as long as the relationship doesn't impact on either of your performance. Others outlaw it completely, while others still have rules, for example, that one member of a couple does not report to the other. It's important to know what your company's stance is and to respect it at all times.
If your company does not have an official stance, it might be a good idea to tell your boss before she hears it from somebody else. Assure her that it won't affect your performance and that you'll keep things above-board and completely professional. |
| Never Mix Business With Pleasure |
| Don't Confuse Boredom With Love |
| When It's The Boss You're Bonking |