It Doesn't Matter

Don’t feel despondent if your best friend just landed a top position, a hot boyfriend and put a deposit down for a brand new place. You’re young. There is still time to settle down and find your niche.

Stop feeling sorry for yourself and live your life, even if it means your career takes a backseat and man-hunting is put on hold for a little while. It’s time to concentrate on making the most of your life. It’s you time.

1. Hate not having a date for Saturday night?	What’s Not To Love? You may not be going out with your future husband (or any man) this weekend but that doesn’t mean you have to be alone. ‘If meeting a man is high on your agenda, change that to meeting good people,’ says couples therapist Marlene Wasserman of Cape Town Medi-Clinic’s Sexual Health Centre. Now is the time for exploring options and having fun, so go out with a girlfriend (or courageously alone) and see what happens. Otherwise stay home with a hot new novel, DVD or sex toy, says Wasserman. ‘Make Saturday a night when you can choose to do what pleases you.’
2. Hate still being single?
3. Hate not having a perfect, size-eight figure?
4. Hate not having a supercharged career?
5. Hate not having a home of your own?
6. Hate not yet having produced the novel/painting/hit song you know is in you?

Author: Glynis Horning